Kink Therapy
Identity, desire, and relationships are deeply personal and unique to each individual. It is common to struggle with finding clarity and seeking guidance, which can make it difficult to fully enjoy your experiences with kink. The most important thing is to connect with someone who understands you and can support you as you explore this journey. Whether you are delving into your kinks, navigating relationship dynamics, or looking for a safe space to discuss your sexual and emotional well-being, you have found a judgment-free environment here.
-You Deserve to Be Seen and Accepted for Who You Are-
Whether you're new to exploring kink or have been practicing it for years, therapy can help you gain a better understanding of yourself, navigate relationship dynamics, and work through any challenges you may be facing. Kink-affirming therapy is based on the belief that consensual kink and alternative lifestyles are valid forms of expression and connection. In this safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment, you can openly discuss and explore your desires, experiences, and relationships.
You may be in a place where:
- You are looking to explore if your desires go beyond just being a fantasy
- You are new to BDSM and could use some guidance
- You are trying to navigate a new or existing power dynamics
- You experienced a consent violation or are uncertain about it
- You want to stop feeling shame about your kink or fetish
- You are unsure of how to share with your partner that you have kinky desires
- Your partner recently revealed their interest in kink to you
- You want to use kink in a healing and positive way
- You are feeling distressed due to a fetish or unwanted sexual behavior
Let's collaborate to evaluate your current kink desires and identify the areas you'd like to enhance. I will use sex-positive, multi-technique approaches to provide you with valuable tools and solutions that are non-judgmental and considerate of all aspects of your identity. Through our partnership, I will support you in making progress toward your kinkiest goals and help you achieve the outcomes you desire.
-Healing is Possible-
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My areas of specialty include:
D/s and M/s relationships: Power exchange relationships build on consent, negotiation, trust, communication, and respect. In D/S, control may be taken physically, mentally, emotionally, or in a combination of ways. The power exchange may be temporary (e.g., during a scene) or long-term (e.g., a lifestyle choice, often referred to as a "24/7" dynamic). M/S is usually characterized by strict protocols, rules, rituals, and a high level of authority where control is over more aspects of the slave's life, including behavior, choices, and sometimes even personal or emotional boundaries.
Sissys or Sissification: Usually a male, who is dressing in feminine clothing (like dresses, lingerie, or makeup) and engaging in behaviors considered stereotypically feminine. This may include being forced or choosing to submit to a dominant partner while performing these roles. Sissification is the roleplay or power dynamic where the individual being "sissied" is taking on the submissive role where humiliation and segregation is a key components. This is a consensual BDMS activity that is negotiated and communicated. In the context of personal identity, some people might embrace the term "sissy" as part of a playful or affirming gender expression, where they embrace their femininity or their enjoyment of performing femininity, often in ways that might not align with traditional masculine expectations.
Spanking: The act of striking a person's buttocks, typically with an open hand or an implement (like a paddle or belt), in a manner that can range from playful to disciplinary. In the realm of BDSM and sexual play, spanking is often used consensually to enhance sexual pleasure or to explore power dynamics. It can be part of roleplay or a dominant/submissive relationship, where one partner strikes the other's buttocks as part of the power exchange. The physical sensation of spanking can range from mild to intense, and the arousal often comes from the psychological aspect (like dominance, submission, or discipline) as much as the physical sensations. Types of spanking are hand spanking, instrumental spanking, light spanking, and heavy spanking.
Fetishes: Many people experience a deep and often intense attraction to certain objects, body parts, materials, or scenarios that may not typically be associated with sexual arousal. This attraction highlights the unique ways individuals express and explore their desires, showcasing the rich diversity of human experience. Understanding and respecting these interests is important as they reveal the complexity of human attraction and the different avenues through which people find connection and fulfillment. In terms of sexual fetishism, a fetish becomes a specific object or body part that is required or strongly desired to achieve sexual arousal. Types of fetishes are object fetishism, body part fetishism, material fetishism, role play and scenario fetishism, and foot fetishism. Fetishes can be a complex aspect of human sexuality, offering individuals a unique way to experience heightened arousal by connecting their sexual excitement to elements beyond typical stimuli. It's important to recognize that these interests can develop for many reasons, including early life experiences, conditioning, or the strong associations formed with certain objects that evoke positive or intense feelings. Understanding this can help foster compassion and acceptance for those with these experiences.
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As a therapist providing kink-affirming therapy in California, I have developed a passion for working with individuals from diverse communities. I enjoy supporting BDSM relationships, as well as partners who may not identify as kinky but love those who do. Creating a nonjudgmental and safe environment is my top priority. My training as a Certified Sex Therapist has equipped me to offer knowledgeable and secure mental health spaces for members of the kink and BDSM community.
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