As you embrace this journey, it can bring about mixed feelings and natural changes. Whether you're just starting out or it has been a while, it's normal to have questions when exploring this part of yourself.

It's common to struggle to find clarity and seek guidance, which may make it difficult to enjoy the kink experience fully. The most important thing is to connect with someone who understands and can support you throughout this exploration.

You may be in a place where:

- You are looking to explore if your desires go beyond just being a fantasy

- You are new to BDSM and could use some guidance

- You are trying to navigate a new or existing BDSM dynamic

- You experienced a consent violation or are uncertain about it

- You want to stop feeling shame about your kink or fetish

- You are unsure of how to share with your partner that you have kinky desires

- Your partner recently revealed their interest in kink to you

- You want to use kink in a healing and positive way

- You are feeling distressed due to a fetish or unwanted sexual behavior

Let's work together to evaluate your current kink desires and pinpoint the areas you'd like to enhance. I will utilize sex-positive multi-technique approaches to equip you with valuable tools and solutions that are non-judgmental and consider all aspects of your identity. Through our collaboration, I will support you in making progress toward your kinkiest of goals and assist you in achieving the outcomes you desire.

-Healing is Possible-

Need Help? I’d Love To Speak With You.

My areas of specialty include:

D/s and M/s relationship dynamics

Pro Dom, Pro-Domme, Pro sub, Fetish content creators, Fetish model

AB/DL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), spanking, pup play, cuckolding, voyeurism, exhibitionism, body parts, clothing, objects, hypnosis, furry, etc.

Partners of kinky people

Providing BDSM Therapy and Kink Therapy in San Diego, I have found a passion for working with all types of individuals within the communities. I love supporting BDSM relationships and partners who are not kinky themselves but love kinky people.

-Build A Stronger You-

Need Help-What Should You Do Next?

Looking for a BDSM therapist who can walk you through what you are going through? Contact me at therapy@juliaschiffmanmsw.com.  I offer a Free 20-minute consultation to get to know you and your needs.